saturday

My Saturday morning workout before I nap for ya bit and than go to work. My grandson rocks at being a little guy. I need to rock as a grandpa. Cool thing is. We can both learn from each other. As I did my self development I was reminded of charismatic matrix we can all develop. Charisma is a sparkle in people that money can’t buy. It’s an invisible energy with visible effects. I want to work on myself everyday so I can increase my positive influence into people. During everyday conversation, a charismatic individual will listen intently to what the other person is saying and ask themselves the following two questions to engage with the person they are connecting too. What does this person want or need? How can I help them get this? When you’re charismatic you naturally project an energy that is very nurturing and adds value to other people’s lives. It is therefore important that you see every interaction with every person you meet as an opportunity to change their lives for the better, even if it is in a very small way. Find out what the other person really wants, what their problems are, what kind of challenges they are facing, and then figure out how you might be able to potentially help them. Your help doesn’t need to cost you a lot of your time or energy. It could be as small as sharing a quote with them that you feel could help change the way they think, or it could be a recommendation about a book you’ve read, or it could just be connecting them to a friend or colleague who has had similar experiences and might be able to provide them with some guidance. No matter what it is, help people in some small way. What might seem small to you, might, in fact, be huge within the context of their life. Life is about learning. And one thing I realize every day is I have so much to learn. If I can help others around me be better than I have achieved a portion of my purpose for this earth. Have a great Saturday.

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