I got a job working tech support. I gained almost 20lbs my first month working there. Seeing myself in pictures was kinda the kick start I needed. I had become the fat one in the family. Luckily my place of employment has an on site gym. I started working out after work.

Seeing the look in my wifes eyes when I take off my shirt is one of the biggest things. I'm not anywhere close to where I want to be, but the changes have been great so far. I've also come to just love being in the gym., whether its lifting or doing some light cardio on an elliptical.