IG fidelityfitness
OVERALL RATING
I'm not naive to the reality of how I can be perceived as unapproachable in the gym. I don't come to this place in search of fitting in, I come on the hunt, hungry for everything that equates to being beyond average, beyond mainstream, surpassing societal mediocracy. But underneath all this 'exterior' is a vessel of emotion and softness, where being kind in a cruel world is not something that turns on and off, where my heart aches when hurt, my eyes cry when sad and my blood boils when ridiculed. Yes I'm focused but never too focused to put this phenomenon of 'resting ***** face' on hold(which I work hard not to have) and smile at those staring for whatever their reasons or ridicules may be. I recently was blessed with a new client who for years I have found myself in social circles with however made assumption that she had a 'distaste' for my appearance. She wrote: 'I've always admired you from afar but never knew just what to say to someone of your intensity...much like those who use "I need to lose weight before I go to the gym" I would say I need to step my game up before I can train with her'. Sometimes our perception of how others see us is a reflection of how we see ourselves or the insecurities imprinted on us from those who have hurt us. Lesson learned: sometimes rather than assume they are 'checking' you, take a minute to check yourself. Smiles are contagious ??