happy saturday
OVERALL RATING
Good morning. I am very moved by a question that I had yesterday and feel that many women need to hear my thoughts....the question revolved around how a woman with muscle is dealt with from a mans perspective - "what is a comment of a man physically being with me". It can get us into to trouble by "assuming" where someone is coming from. Last year I tried and tried to be something I really wasn't. Everyone has there place where they grow and inspire other people. I happen to be able to bodybuild and have a God given physique to do so. But I was so afraid to put on mucle. So I tried to lose muscle through my training to compete in bikini. It was actually pretty painful to have to go to the gym and not really let loose who I was and what my body wanted to do. It was all based on fear of what others, especially men, would think if I got "too big" or "too muscular". Then I really found who I was and what really made ME happy. Once I tapped into that, I started lifting HEAVY in the gym and my body has never been so lean and amazing as it is today. I accepted that my body loved to put on muscle and I love what my body looks like with muscle. It is not a factor any more if I will be judged based on how muscular I am or not. Point being, live authentic, for your own happiness. The spirit mind connection is a real thing and some of the most amazing miracles will be witnessed regarding body transformation when you stop the fight, live for what makes you happy and be true to yourself. It's then you look around and keep those that continue to stay by your side. You will find others that honor where you deserve to be and where your destiny is taking you. Oh and one other thing, people's opinion of who you are and what you are doing are none of your business. It's time we take a stand for ourselves like we do for so many other people in our lives. That is when you will see great things happen in your life and to your life. Have an amazing weekend beasts.