I don't need to fit..
OVERALL RATING
I have a closet full of skeletons as the result of 'wanting to fit in'. I was a wannabe of things I knew deep down I really didn't want anyways. I learned to follow the crowd when I knew I was better off alone. I could fake a smile better than most woman can fake the big O. (I could fake that too...) I said I was fine... And really I wasn't. With so many 'false pretences' blowing up news feeds, it's hard to establish whose real and whose hiding behind social media filters. (Yes I use filters but not to hide weakness rather accentuate my strengths....plus filters make a flex look good). It's easy to portray everything you want people to believe you are but the truth is you cannot fake your own reality...it WILL catch up with you. So many preach one thing only to live another and often it's out of fear for what others might think of you if they really knew YOU. It's okay to live outside the boundaries of normalcy, to be opposite of everything everyone tells you you should be. You don't NEED to 'fit in' with anyone and at the same time you can 'fit in' with everyone as long as the reflection staring back at you 'fits in with YOU'. That reflection should always accept you, the real you, raw and rough and ridiculous, and without ever expecting you to change in order to do so! Ps. This will always be my favourite photo...when the photographer said 'do what makes you feel beautiful/sexy/hot.....I star jumped' #bereal #cantfilterheart #BeYOUtifulbeast #beyou #anythingbutaverage #LiveAJackedLife