sometimes I wonder...
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Sometimes I wonder if what people say is really what they are saying.....I'm not sure if sometimes peoples words are truly meant to be insulting but rather their just ignorant to how their words are affecting you. Telling someone 'wow your soooo skinny' who is grinding it out every day to be the exact oppostie of this or recognizing that someone is building...(not bulking) by stating 'wow girl you are HUGE' does not necesarily mean that that person is trying to insult or berrate you, sometimes they are simply stating the facts. Where the perception of negativity comes into play is how comfortable and confident you feel in your own skin during these statements. Someone recently reminded me that "its not your size that intimidates them...it's what you are capable of doing". So before I am quick to assume and attack 'negativity' I remind myself of this. I also remind myself that at the end of the day you should never allow someone with the signficance of a 'speed bump to become a road block in your life'. Jill