Hard to say how and when. I started yrs ago when I was in my teens, it has been an off and on thing since then. Now that I am older I want to commit and hopefully this time this is it.

This is the only time that I have for me, and now that it is for me (not for attacting a mate or anyother stupid reason) it makes sense. Do it for you and no one else. I think that is the key.